What to do when your dream man is taken?

Every one of us has surely fallen for someone who was already spoken for. Unfortunately, we can't choose who we fall in love with; our heart decides that entirely on its own. But what can we do when the chosen dream man is taken? Not much, because love doesn't just go away, especially not when you are constantly surrounded by your dream man. The best thing is to cut off contact with him, because that is the only way the love will fade one day.

dream man taken

Dream Man Taken - He Gets Involved With You Anyway?

At the beginning, it may all still feel thrilling and exciting: the risk of maybe getting caught, the early infatuation, the attention you receive. But in the end you only hurt yourself, because the more time you spend with the man, the more you fall for him, until you think you can't live without him. Then comes the moment when you realize once again that the dream man is taken, and everything collapses inside you. Then the famous heartbreak begins, and pretty much everyone knows it is no fun. You should definitely think beforehand about whether it is all worth it.

In this case, the best thing is to have an open conversation with the man and explain that this kind of relationship is not good for you and leads nowhere, because everyone wants a relationship they can fully enjoy and live out. You want to show the whole world how happy you are, but that isn't possible when the dream man is taken. The best thing is then to cut off contact, at least for a while, and to make sure you have plenty of distraction, for example sport, meeting friends, or work. Only with distraction are you on the safe side, so that you don't think of your dream man too often and risk falling back into heartbreak.

 

Dream Man Taken - Conclusion

If you fall in love with a man who is taken, you should think about a few things in advance. You should also ask yourself a question or two, such as: Do I want to be his number two forever, or do I want someone who will never stand by me? Don't I deserve better, and above all, might he cheat on me too? No matter how you decide in the end, always pay attention to how you are doing and how it makes you feel. If you notice it isn't good for you, pull the plug as soon as possible and keep your distance, even if it is hard at first. You should protect your heart.

 

Reasons to look elsewhere:

  • you will always be number 2
  • you may get cheated on yourself
  • there is someone out there who only has eyes for you