Sexy Men | TROUBLE Finding Men?

We see them on movie posters, in glossy magazines and TV shows, and of course on the big screen: sexy men! But what exactly makes a man sexy to us?

Sexy Men - Common Views

Sexy men don't necessarily need a perfectly defined six-pack, but a beer belly really isn't very attractive. Muscular arms and legs probably don't bother any of the ladies either, though he doesn't have to be Arnold Schwarzenegger. A rakish smile and tousled hair (even if it takes hours of styling) make women's hearts beat faster.

If he also knows how to show off his best features through his clothes without constantly being overdressed, he definitely belongs among the sexy men of this world. Especially when he has no idea what effect he has on women!

Sexy men can listen! When our date focuses on us and keeps his smartphone in his pocket on the first dates, it shows not only respect but genuine interest, and that is sexy! The gold standard is when he also remembers what he was told and keeps bringing up in the rest of the conversation what he has already learned and admires about us!

Sexy men can laugh with us! A hearty laugh and a radiant smile are sexy. Whether it's a funny moment from life or a joke from the office, if we can see at least the corners of his mouth turning up, it makes us women very happy. If he tells clumsy stories from his own life and can laugh at himself, he has won our hearts.

Sexy men are protectors! In times of equality this may sound a bit odd. A hand on the hip or around the shoulder, especially in a crowd or on unfamiliar paths, signals to those around: this is mine and I protect it. Honestly, we like that! Of course a woman can take care of herself and defend herself these days, but gentleman qualities still go over very well.

Sexy Men - What Else Makes Hot Men

He doesn't have to skip the final of the football season to prove his love. Missing a match now and then to come along on a shopping trip or just to sit with a cappuccino in the town square, we like that a lot. He adapts to us and our needs just as we grant him his after-work beer with his friends.

The ultimate sexy man makes sure she has plenty of highlights in bed before he finishes himself!