What we should say when we want to find an attractive man

If we're proud of him, he'll be glad to hear it. Even for small wins, like when he finally drags himself to the gym. Saying "Nah, it's nothing!" out of spite doesn't help anyone. Always address problems openly! Made a mess of things? Then not even a love letter will help — only a heartfelt apology will.

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Finding an Attractive Man: Teamwork

A buddy asks our other half how his job interview went. He talks a big game — even though it was actually a total flop. We hold back any comment. He'll have his reasons for not telling the truth. And stabbing him in the back is completely out of the question! The effect: he sees us as his ally and knows we'd never expose him. That doesn't mean we have to think everything he does is great. Of course we're allowed to voice our opinion, but we don't forget: men have feelings too.

Finding an Attractive Man: Merci Beaucoup

Sometimes we overlook the little things (like when he skips the sports show for us). Instead of demanding even more, we should appreciate his gestures more and say thank you more often.

Finding an Attractive Man: Being Natural

Especially at the start of a relationship, we want to seem perfect. But we can let our guard down, show ourselves without makeup, laugh about it when we fart or drool in our sleep. He loves us the way we are — authentic and unfiltered. And if he doesn't, he isn't the right one anyway.

Finding an Attractive Man: Stay-in-Bed Box

The most beautiful gifts come from the heart. Especially the handmade ones with no special occasion. For the next "stay in bed" Sunday, fill a wooden crate or a basket with croissants, juice, sparkling wine, latte, fruit, a DVD, tasty snacks, and so on. And then? Enjoy your cuddle date!

Flirt Love to go: little tokens of affection to take along

Remember Keep mementos of shared experiences, like the tickets from your first movie date, and gift them on your anniversary.

Cheese Just snap a sexy pic in between and send it. It shows him we're thinking of him and leaves him wanting more.

Thinking of you Leave little love notes (like a Post-it on the mirror or a note tucked in his lunch box). So sweet!